Lately I 've been having some thoughts about marriage and stuff...
Not that I am getting married or something! I am not even in a relationship with someone!
All the married couples I know are non romantic (but they used to be when they were younger), they are having less fun than they used to, they are more realistic about their relationship and generally with their lives. They also fight a lot about anything.
I had heard once that marriage is the recipe for disaster when it comes to romantic even non romantic couples. They tend to fight like every once in a while and they are still together because of money problems or because they just want to be with someone so as not to die alone.
So I am afraid now that if I ever have a relationship that serious that will end up in a marriage, everything will go to he(ck) and it will be a disaster.
Is this reality or just too many coincidences?
6 comments:
Thank you for your nice comments on my blog.
As far as marriage goes, I have been married for almost 2 year and it has been the happiest 2 years of my life. I can honestly say that we have never had a fight and each day I love him even more.
You are so young, you have plenty of time to date a ton a different guys to find out what you want and who makes you happy. I dated a lot of great guys before I got married, but when I met my husband... I knew he was perfect for me! I love to be with him and feel like I can't get enough of him.
Take the time to find out who you are and who will bring out the best in you. I think sometimes when people get married too young they have selfish tendencies and are only thinking about their own needs. I feel more concerned about my husband's need than my own, and he does the same for me. We are by no means perfect, just perfect for each other.
Be excited! Marriage is AWESOME!!
Oh My God! Thank you for all this advice and the convincing! And for the huge comment! It's really kind of you :)
Well, yeah I read to your blog about your marriage and it seems a totally different point of view. I am happy to find out that marriage is actually something awesome!
I hope when I meet the "someone" i will know :)
Thanks again right? :)
Hello there....please get your education first, have a good job, know who you are and where you are going in life before you get married. There are soooooo many wonderful things to see in this world, and savor every moment you can. SOME DAY YOUR PRINCE WILL COME ..remember the song. It's true, you just have to make sure you find the right one though. Take care...and drop by and see me again..my door is always open...Remember, you have to kiss allot of frogs to get to the prince.
Oh Grandma B, you are such a warm and nice person :)
Of course I want to have a job first and then get married... I mean, I havent even been in a relationship yet (all the guys that ask me out are jerks :( )
But I am sure someday I ll meet that prince :)
Thank you so much for all you ve said :)
Have a nice day :)
♡ I have to say that marriage is not peaches and cream all the time! It takes work, work from you and work from your husband! I was married when I was 22 and my husband was 26. We became friends first but we both knew what we wanted out of a marriage. We've been married for almost 9 years now and it still takes work, but if you have a true love for a that person you're not going to give up on the relationship. I think there are way to people out there that use divorce for any little problem. We decided when we got married that divorce wasn't an option and that this marriage was FOREVER! We now have 4 kids and having kids adds another level of WORK to your relationship as well. As far as "romance" goes... Even if you're not married and "living" with someone (which I think is wrong) however if that's you choice it's the same thing that happens in a marriage the newness wares off and it's not as romantic as the first 6 months or year and that's typical for any relationship married or not. I know there are some exceptions to the rule but... You get what I mean?
So I guess in my mind it boils down to are you ready to commit and until you are then marriage isn't right for you! (I know you said you're not ready yet of course but in the future) :)
Thanks for coming by my blog!
Are you serious
wow! Thank you for this huge comment :)
You are right. I just have the wrong examples :/ And yes, marriage is not all peaches and cream like you ve said but I thought it would only be destroyement etc. Ok as you can see, some people here have convinced me about the oppossite and now you are one of them :)
As about romance.... I hope I ll be one of the exceptions :)
:)
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